to forget you...

i was reading this book to forget you by low kay hua..
this book is really moving.. it talks bout the history of this couple together and how deep their love it is for each other. the style of this book is unique too, sharing the details of the history of their relationship from the guy's point of view and showing the aftermath of their breakup from the girl's point of view.
i won't be posting any spoilers here so if u wanna read this story, pls either buy the book or borrow from me..
One quote i really love from this both is this: as long as there is still love there is hope..
I find low kay hua's novels very touching and appeals to romance addicts (unfortunately i'm not one but i like his books).



This book reminds me of this song, nothing's gonna change my love for you

No matter what, the love for each other is so deep that no matter what happens, the love will still be there for each other.

I hope the girl i would be with will feel the same as i do, that we will love each other no matter what happens

an eventful day.

today i went back to visit li lao shi with ying chern once more time.
ying chern is flying off to england to study law so it's like the last time to catch up with my childhood abacus friend.. also it's the month of teacher's day so we went back to wish li lao shi happy teacher's day. we even bought for her a mug and gave her photos of the 3 of us together during our last visit there..
wonder when is the next time we can meet up....

also today, met up with genesis ppl for Counter-strike...
have been a while since we played together..
wish we could play more together

love ?

was reading on yahoo news today..
something interesting about life partners
here is the excerpt
Men tend to wind up with life partners who look like their mother, while a woman is lured to a partner who looks like her father, scientists reported on Wednesday.
Interestingly, men and women focused on different parts of the face when they home in on a potential mate, they found.
A man's lover and his mother tended to have similar fullness in the lips, width of mouth, as well as length and width of jaw.
But for women, the critical features were the distance between mouth and brow, the height of the face, distance between the eyes and the size of a man's nose.
The choices are driven less by psychology and socialisation and more by evolutionary pressures, suggests Bereczkei.
Too much genetic overlap -- as can happen with incest -- is an evolutionary no-no.
But seeking similar genetic traits "may confer individuals with additional adaptive advantages," he wrote.
It could increase the degree to which parents share genes with offspring, enhancing the genetic representation of future generations.
Finding similar partners might also help perpetuate genetic complexes that have evolved to adapt to a particular environment.
There may be an additional bonus, which probably has more to do with happiness than a genetic imperative.
"Human couples who are similar in physical and psychological characteristics are more likely to remain together than dissimilar partners, possibly leading to an increase in fertility," the study concludes.
-http://sg.news.yahoo.com/afp/20080904/tts-science-sex-love-genetics-behaviour-c1b2fc3.html-

kinda interesting how it says our life partners look exactly like our parents?
maybe we spend so much time with our parents such that we want our partners to be similiar to them?
could be..
i dunno but i'm still looking......